Why would an American women object that if her husband raises her daughter in the same?

Why would an American women object that if her husband raises her daughter in the same close nit family structure of the 1950’s and to the same high standards as Michelle Obama and US Diplomats that work for the US State Department? Most European children today are still raised in the same close nit family structure of the 1950's (this is why European children are better behaved than American children). She would be a very submissive girl because she has a very good relationship with her father. Her father makes her give her mother a lot of respect. This comes 100 percent out of the home and a father can do this just as easily as a mother. If you are not raised that way than you can never become a diplomat that works for the US State Department, become a corporate officer for a corporation or become a wife of a politician and the French will hate you 100 percent your own fault because of the way you behave. This is also the reason why Tiger Woods married a Swedish women and stayed away from American women.