Why do American women hate American men marrying foreign women?

Don't they realize it's their own doing for making divorce a hellhole for men? Perhaps if they didn't demand alimony and child support payments and are willing to give man custody of there children like in the middle east, more men would want to get married to American women. Most American children born to foreign women and there father and are raised in the same close nit family structure of the 1950's have a better relationship with there mother, are better behaved and should be able to properly present them selves abroad for the same reason US diplomats can. 90 percent of American women can not properly present them selves abroad.